“I no longer have the energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations. If we don’t vibrate on the same frequency there’s just no reason for us to waste our time. I’d rather have no one and wait for substance than to not feel someone and fake the funk.” — Unknown
If you’re going to leave someone, keep the light on. Don’t leave them in the dark where they can’t find answers.
The reason we are suffering is not because the love has ended, but because it still continues, even after the love is over.
The worst way for friendships to end is for literally nothing to go wrong, you just stop talking. they stop messaging you to see how you’re doing and you get sick of being the first one to initiate conversation so you just let the friendship go and wonder how that person is doing and never hear from them again.
My dance teacher told me that the way you hold your hand says everything. Like a chunk of chalk grasped in a fist. The first few times you ever tried your name in cursive, that bumpy sheepish statement of who you are and now you write symphonies. The hand and its progression says everything.
"All we need is someone who understands. Someone who will never ask us the question, “Are you okay?” because he can see the answer just by looking at our eyes. Someone who will listen, no matter how long and difficult our story is. Someone who will know when to give us space that we need and when to stay even if we have done all the efforts to push him away. Someone who would never judge us no matter how dark the secrets that we confess to them. Someone who at the end of the day, will still make us believe that there is hope for us even if we have given up on ourselves because of everything that we do. Someone who can make us feel our worth during those times that we fail to see it within us. Someone who will stay with us during the good and the bad days because they know very well how it feels like to be alone and to have no one to turn to. Someone who will accept us no matter how messed up of a person we are and someone who will never make us feel like we are a burden because to that someone, we are important and we are worth it.”
— And I am afraid I can never find that someone, (N.A.)
"If I had not met you that day, then I would not have experienced that pain and sadness and memories filled with tears. But if I had not met you, I would also not have experienced that joy, excitement and memories filled with tears. If I had not met you, I would also have not experienced that joy, excitement, preciousness, happiness and the feeling of absolute happiness."